The end of heartbreak is not only desired. It’s usually something that occurs spontaneously. No one wants to suffer endlessly, yet some of us cling to our pain to the point where we identify with that pain as ourselves.
We use guilt to hold on, especially in cases where we don’t want to let go of the pain of someone we still love.
The attachment to that person holds us captive, but all we know of their memory is pain.
During lunar opposition Jupiter falling on July 6, 2022, many of us might feel this spontaneous release from the pain we have held on to for so long.
We may not even be aware that it’s slipping away from us, and yet the air suddenly seems to breathe easily, and we can find ourselves saluting the day, rather than seeing it as just another day of all we know , fear of the unknown is.
This transit helps us face the facts; We are in pain, we don’t want to be in pain, and so we decide that we don’t need to attach ourselves to a pain that belongs to another era in our lives. We are free.
When we come to a point in our lives where we realize that we are made of pain and lost in that identity, we may realize that we are not who we really are.
We are here, in the present, and the sorrow we carry is not just a constant burden belonging to a past we cannot change; it doesn’t matter now We don’t need this heartbreak to function. We can’t use this sorrow for anything but as a tool to free ourselves once and for all.
The 3 zodiac signs whose grief will end during lunar opposition Jupiter on July 6, 2022:
(June 21 – July 22)
As a birthday gift to yourself, give yourself the freedom to move on. You held on to your sorrow and let it define you. Those in your life have come to know you as someone who feels pain and will not let go. That is, of course, until the time is right, and that time is now, Cancer, during the Moon opposite Jupiter, which is happening today, July 6th.
Enough is enough; You’re not fooling yourself this time. You have realized that this attachment to pain is masochistic and unnecessary. There is nothing you can do to change the past and the present seems without presence. You can no longer live in the past as it drains your life force. You are the one who pulls you out of your heartbreak because now you realize its worth: nothing.
(23 August – 22 September)
You are going through an incredible time in your life Virgo as things seem to be changing rapidly and all for the better. You have evolved into a spiritual being, and as you grow you shed the skin that comes with your old self that was so attached to the past. And the past was something you made a living thing, a constant source of misery in your life that you actually controlled.
Once again, the spontaneity that the Moon creates in relation to Jupiter allows you insight; You know what to do. You must embrace the changes around you and ride this wave until it takes you to a place of peace. They are no longer interested in carrying the burden of sorrow; it does not serve you. Welcome to your new life, Virgo. Enjoy the ride.
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(November 22 – December 21)
Something crazy happens to you: you forgive EVERYONE. It just started happening, and now you’re on the right track. And the funny thing is, it’s real. This forgiveness is not a constant process of reflecting on how you have forgiven those who have hurt you; No, it’s a one-shot deal, so you know it’s legit. What it means is that you will forgive someone and then you will not look back.
You won’t get over how they hurt you BUT you forgave them so all is well now. NO, you will forgive them and you will rarely think of them again. Forgiveness is real and forever frees you from the heartache you wanted to carry. You give up the grudge and it allows you to breathe again. The world is yours now and everything is happening in the present moment. Good for you!
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